My Ideal Person:
In my experience, there are few and far between of what I'm looking for (at least in terms of finding it in conjunction with chemistry)...you know it when you see it...sexy, witty, loving, exciting, insightful, has a strong sense of self, warm but irreverent and cool, evolved but childlike, a little bit of a troublemaker, stands out from the others. Some might call it gifted, but after reading The Drama of a Gifted Child (or 40 pages of it anyway), I think that just means has had some challenging life circumstances but has come out ahead, grounded, and with great depth. I tend to be drawn to other artists with a unique point of view. I guess if you're really hot though, we can work out some of these other kinks.

• The last great book I read
  naked by David Sedaris