ME:
I am a truly genuine person. When you first meet me I may seem hard to figure out, but I have a lot of depth and a very big heart with lots of love to give. I am intelligent, have aspirations, and set high standards for myself. I am witty and a bit sarcastic, but always in a fun-loving and humorous way. I must emphasize that I am honest, sincere, and respectful, and I expect the same from others. I can handle whatever you tell me, but I do not like finding out the hard way.
I am boy-ish - but I emphasize that I do not identify as "butch" and don't expect a woman to fall into a preset "femme" role. I am just not down with labeling people in that way. What I am is a real person with interests and a personality and my sexuality is just part of what makes me, me. SO: I do definitely prefer woman who are feminine, or on the feminine side, because it just tends to fit better with my natural tendencies (I am SO attracted to a confident feminine woman), BUT I would never want you or I to be boxed in or define ourselves based on that.
I have been told that I've got a lot of charm. Oh, and I'm pretty cute - but that's up to you to decide ;)
I like to be outdoors (even though I've been cursed with pasty Irish skin), play tennis, take walks or casual hikes, bike, go on random road trips or vacations, have great conversation, enjoy romantic evenings, cuddle up on a cold night - or even a warm one ;) , read good books, grill outdoors on sunny afternoons, spend time with good friends...and sometimes I like to just sit back and relax without worrying about life's stressors.
My Ideal Person:
YOU:
Obviously we are all looking for someone with whom we have chemistry - that's essential. But I'd also like to find someone who is real and true to herself. A woman who is honest, takes pride in her genuineness, and not afraid to say what is on her mind. A woman who loves and knows herself - because that is what will make me fall in love with her. I am very attracted to intelligence and confidence - but I believe a certain amount of vulnerability is key to emotional health.
Please be intelligent, know who you are (as best as any of us can in an evolving world), and be willing to be open, honest, and real. Be willing to let me know who you really are, and I will do the same. I have no expectations per se, but I am not looking for mere "play."
I prefer to date professionals, grad students, or people who have real goals for their futures and - if the right person came along - would be willing to settle down.
Finally, I do have a preference that you be a "lesbian" - again, I'm not into labels, but I'd at least like you to be comfortable with the idea of spending your life with a woman.
Ultimately, I don't expect anyone to perfectly match the above and I am very open-minded to meeting new people. I could be pleasantly surprised.
If you would like to talk or meet up, let me know. :)
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